How to become a classy woman

Cool woman - an ornament of any society; they find a way out of hopeless situations (and fast and elegant), always set the right tone - and at the meeting and in small talk, and can turn a dull party into a holiday and stalled business talks revive an unexpected proposal.

Every man dreams of a life partner. But being cool is not given to everyone. However, each can be her. The concept of "upper class" has nothing to do with the division of society into classes.

Belonging to it is not determined by whether your name appears in the society pages, and if you have a house on the shore of the Gulf of Finland. Money is all to do with it, because the class - a style and character.

The criteria for determining the "class" rather vague, but there are several areas where the class or the lack thereof are particularly bright.

LIFE STYLE

Cool woman never come to work in the evening dress. But it will always be dressed with taste and "with a twist". It will not be guided by the principle of "cheap and cheerful" buy everything very cheap.

He knows when to bargain is, and when it is empty and demeaning waste of time. Even at home, she does not wear the old, in neotstiryvayuschihsya stained blouse and will not go uncombed.

There will always be to maintain smooth relations with colleagues, even if some of them do not like it. She knows at work - work first.

Even with modest means to find a way to express gratitude for every little thing for her to do. She never thinks: "Yes, it's not worth anything."

Not being able to spend a lot of money, it wastes time. For example, the separated line for tickets to a musical or a sensational exhibition, and beating one hundred second-hand shops in the one hundred and first buy a book that her friend had dreamed all his life.

Never peredarivat useless ceramic ashtray or a wool blend scarves.

To maintain order even in places where, in addition to her, no one looks. She pulls out a self-esteem to be accurate for the sake of itself.

At a party at the liquor cool woman lacks everything. She did not expect that, if it is over, the guests disperse, or even bring. When she is not on the means to provide a great choice, she would not hold a party at all. Or will stock at least 3-4 drinks.

MEN

Cool woman never clings to a lover, believing that its only value is in connection with it. In her life there are many things it can generously share with a friend. It can distract from their own affairs and to switch to his problems. A man listens to her advice.

He never tells a man that she does not like the way it looks. If it's rain, it will not call him to work, to talk about how dampness spoiled it just made in the barbershop hair. If the "creeping" tights, her man does not even know about it.

Knowing about their shortcomings, fighting with them, and does not poison the man lives a constant discussion.

It does not consider man as an instrument for self-assertion. It does not consider that he is obliged to take her to restaurants and give expensive gifts, if he knows that he is not a millionaire. It can be satisfied with one of coffee, he is not afraid to go to museums and invite a friend to dinner.

Not afraid to seem stupid and can make independent decisions.

FRIENDS

Cool woman calling a friend, does not delve into the details of his novel, and its absence does not describe how it got caught on the eve of the subway doors. She repeats friends overheard somewhere gossip.

Not boasts that familiar with celebrities. It will of course be happy to meet with your favorite actor, but her self-esteem and success in life is never associated with the presence of famous lovers.

Never put people in an awkward position. She will not speak of those present in the third person. If she has an extra ticket to the theater, and she has promised his girlfriend, then do not give the person with whom she suddenly want to go.

Attention to the interests of friends, knows how to tactfully engage in general conversation shy guest trying to lighten and brighten up people's lives.

Always listen to the interlocutor, rather than a two-hour monologue to break out.

DO NOT BE AFRAID TO BE YOURSELF

Type of behavior, issuing no class called reason - fear. Fear of doing something wrong, not like being rejected. Fear leads to stiffness and painful shyness that makes a woman to do things, the absence of outstanding class.

Cool woman understands the futility of trying to pass himself off as someone who she really is. She is not afraid to be natural, or rather, to be herself in any situation.

In this regard, I can not remember a story.

One day my friend dyed her hair when her doorbell rang. Two of her friends came without warning, in the company of a man who for a long time, and she very much liked. No, it does not shut the door and not even gone to the bathroom, leaving the visitors hesitate bored in the kitchen.

She wrapped her head with a towel and turquoise, explaining without panic and an apology that colors hair, began to treat all of the coffee. An hour later she left the company for 10 minutes, washed and returned to the ink flowing, shiny, slightly damp hair.

Later, making her a marriage proposal, the man confessed that he was fascinated by her beauty and naturalness. "I realized - he said. - You're real. And you're just cool!"

This impressive demonstration class cost my friend 200 rubles (the price spoiled towels) and helped to win the man of whom she had dreamed.

So the "upper class" is not so expensive. Can you afford to not have?

How to look sexy and elegant?

Is it worth it to pay attention to the clothes? How to combine sexual appearance with further advancement? To be a written beauty (if you were lucky enough to be born of it) just is not what you want, it may interfere with his career.

Do not laugh! A friend of mine head admitted that he revels in the beautiful views of female breast on the stage or in the bar, but among the desks so wonderful spectacle relaxes and distracts from the work.

If you're smart enough, you'll get all - success, respectable appearance, recognition of your appeal.

For me, being sexy is a very loving man and be happy that I'm a woman. That's all!

Of course, there are different little tricks to look stunning (and we'll talk about it), but if people say, "It is well dressed"; it means: "She dresses sexy."

Some of the girls themselves are charming and attractive, in any clothes. But they would look even more exciting if dressed nicely - forgetting the tight sweaters and bras remembering.

No secular sex-bomb, no matter what the beauty of it is, do not dress up as a street whore. Your goal - to dress beautifully and tastefully.

What are the requirements to the unwritten laws of female employees of the office?

Eliminate from your wardrobe rhinestones, sequins dresses, tight black clothes, tiers of muslin, lace kilometers, jingling metal jewelry with crystals, stretched knits, transparent blouses.

Forget flashy colors, sensuous silk, shapeless jersey, starched pique, motley Scotswoman and trendy clothes.

Who needs all this bad taste? Of course, there were times when the chiefs preferred to see the tables such "birds" around brown. Not long ago, light makeup secretary was considered almost a challenge to society.

Much has changed since then, even though, unfortunately, not all accept these changes. Elizabeth in the book "The ability to act in the service of" working girls advises: "You look as inconspicuous as possible." This has its own logic.

Indeed! What a boss wants to found difficulty to your liking beautiful secretary put in a glass case, and not to breathe on her, while he had to dictate business texts.

If the caller's appearance girl is haunted by the boss, then it is better to hide her magnificent breasts under armor - but you must understand that any Head shoot himself rather than allow it.

Of course, we do not want men pushing each other in the ribs, released in your address something like, "Hey, Charlie, you've got to pick up the cat and invite some tavern to drink."

No, your employees need to dream, looking after you, that with such a cute and sweet girl would be good to get to know. As it is necessary to look into this case? Here is what the charming Harry: "The most important thing - to find their own style. I am sure that women Mota shopping in your lunch break, do not have style."

If you are very hard to resolve this issue, talk with a friend or loved one. But they have to be honest, how unpleasant it may be to you.

First of all, you need to determine its shape. Who are you - low graceful cat, slender high elf (a figure considered to be the most sexually attractive), a miniature statue of a woman with classical forms?

Short or long your legs, sloping or square shoulders, massive or slender physique, wide or small bones? It is important to know.

If you are short in stature and in general look like a teenager, you can not even dream about clothes suitable leggy Diana the Huntress. When, finally, you understand with your figure, you can easily pick up the clothes suitable for you.

Depending on what you prefer - wool, tweed, silk, - will develop a wardrobe, using

you will be able to charm everyone. Once you find your style, you have to learn how to dress tastefully.

This will help you fashion magazines, special sections in newspapers, acquaintances, elegant woman, and all that you see in the windows of department stores, at fashion shows and even in theaters, concert halls and museums.

Anna, the sexiest fashion and at the same time stylish youth clothes, says a saleswoman in a store may be your best advisor. If you are lucky, you will discover such a person, who, knowing your inquiries, call you and say that they received just such a product which you want.

But why all the fuss? Just to please men. Believe me, if the stronger sex like the way you dress, it proves that you have good taste. Following the fashion, you hone your taste, but it is always a winner!

As to the statements that all male homosexuals and designers create clothes just like "unisex", not wanting to do sexy female outfits, is - nonsense! For example, Clark was the evening dress with the neckline, one journalist wrote, if the dress of a woman breast is not only visible but audible.

Is this unisex? (Incidentally, the homosexuals, I know, admire beautiful women, just in bed, they do not need them.)

Speaking of the neckline. For example, every day you show up at work strictly and elegantly dressed - but sometimes you can give yourself an indulgence. For example, if you have a sunny May day or come to the office in a dress with an extravagant cut, it did not hurt your reputation. Women often use sexy clothes.