How to choose a baby sitter

Sooner or later there will come a day when a woman again want some kind of life outside the home, for example, to go to the barber shop or do some shopping, go somewhere in the evening with a husband or see friends. In this article you will learn how to choose the right nanny for your child, the first time I leave the baby with a nanny, you need to prepare for the arrival of the nurse, how to avoid painful parting with the child, useful advice.

After a period of complete "symbiosis" where the mother and the child as it were one, the woman begins to feel the desire to live again "normal" life. It should not blame yourself for it - a change of scenery it is absolutely necessary, and if the good mother - well and her child. Gradually, they both need to learn to be separated for a while, and then the child can understand that the mother - not his property.

If you can not leave your child with someone from relatives or neighbors, one way out - to find a babysitter.

It is always better to leave the child, especially the first time, a man whom you know or whom you recommended - to fully trust him. For example, it may be a girl who comes to you to help with the housework - positive thing is that they are already familiar with the child.

If you are not yet familiar with the future nurse, ask her to come to you before, when you're at home, so you can see how it deals with the child and get to know her.

It does not really matter whether you choose boy or girl, young or more mature person. What is important is not so much experience with children, as such qualities as kindness and common sense. The main thing that this man makes you full confidence that he loved children and was kind to them. Will you be able to get away with a light heart - depends not only on Babysitting much of its human qualities.

First time with a nanny

What you need to prepare for the arrival of the nurse to go quietly? Here are some tips to start:

• Prepare in advance everything that the nurse will have to use: bottle mixture, water, diapers, cream and the like. Thus, you eliminate the need to climb on all the cupboards in search of clean pajamas.

• Ask the nurse to come fifteen minutes before your departure, in a quiet environment to explain to her everything and go without haste.

• Help the nurse to get used to a new place: provide it, if needed, the child and show the main rooms of the house (bathroom, nursery, kitchen, living room). Explain where it can take the clean clothes, diapers, baby food and the like.

• Familiarize the nurse to the peculiarities of everyday life of your child (if necessary, write down everything on paper): medication, care, bathing, feeding, and so on.

• Write down the telephone number, which you can easily find, as well as other numbers that may be useful: the coordinates of your physician, "ambulance", neighbors or relatives.

• Finally, try not to change their plans without first notifying the nurse, and do not be late home. Having done all, so you can leave with peace of mind.

How to avoid the painful parting with the child?

• Warn your child that you go and tell him goodbye. Even if he does not understand the meaning of your words, they will give him confidence. Try, if possible not to leave the house when the baby sleeps. If this can not be avoided, say goodbye to him in advance.

• Child care is more alarming state of the mother than the fact that it is a few hours leaves him with someone else. Therefore, deciding to take advantage of babysitting services, and how to prepare everything for her arrival, quietly go away and try to relax.

• If all goes well, the next time invite the same nanny: they gradually get used to kid each other.

School uniforms - necessity or unnecessary problems

School uniform clothing is mandatory for students while they are in school and at official events taking place outside the school. This clothing is not only a functional significance. It plays a very important role in development and formation of the person.

Sometimes quarrels between adolescents arise from the appearance or because of differences of tastes. That is why the form of school is a leader in the formation of a certain system of philosophy and focuses on students' humanistic and intellectual values.

Also, according to many psychologists, casual suits for study can prevent the penetration of relationships that develop in the teenage counter-cultural groups in the process of acquiring knowledge. Also worth noting is that during puberty in young people celebrated a special emotional and psychological tension, and increased requirements to help smooth the appearance is a common school uniform. It prevents giperseksualizatsiyu and promotes intellectual affirmation teenagers. It is often expensive trappings of modern life become a kind of way of compensation in the substantial absence of any achievements in sports, education and interpersonal relationships.

School uniforms switches attention to the student from his appearance in the process of obtaining knowledge, gives him the opportunity to concentrate on their studies and improves the efficiency of the educational process. It creates a psychological background, which helps tune into productive work.

The described clothing should be not only strong, but also practical, convenient, and quality. Today, the administration of each school in its sole discretion may choose standards costumes for students. However, there are common criteria that make accessories for school. So, first of all, it should be noted that the form - this is not the dress, and work clothes, which have to carry out five days a week. Therefore, it is desirable that the colors of these costumes were calm and low-key, not tired or irritated vulnerable psyche of the child.

The fabric from which sewed shape should at least fifty per cent consist of wool, cotton or rayon. This clothing must necessarily comply with existing hygienic requirements. Also, it is desirable that it was easy to operate - not myalas, easy to wash, does not lose its presentation.

Any student in the form should be convenient, it is impossible to suppress his natural activity or snare. After the discomfort caused by clothing, it can negatively affect not only his health but also on learning. Also be sure all the costumes are chosen according to the size, but because of quite intensive growth of children, and they require regular replacement.

Modern children's clothing manufacturers pay special attention to the production of school uniforms. In developing the model they are trying to take into account many factors that affect the health of students. Also clothes for school is no longer the same type or ugly. In the process of tailoring using original design solutions to make it a fashionable and attractive.

Today we can note that the times when the form is to go to school was all exactly the same, it is long gone. Now, this clothing can be selected by parents and children in accordance with their taste preferences. If earlier it was not particularly comfortable and made only in a certain color, these days you can easily pick up the costumes, which will satisfy all the requirements of students and fit under certain standards of the school.

From the above it can be concluded that the school uniform plays an important role in a child's life, which is why her choice must be taken seriously enough. In addition, it is worth considering that in such clothes student will go on throughout the whole year. Therefore, if any article of clothing will be spoiled, it will have to choose a replacement. It is also desirable to have a few sets of clothes described, so as not to tire the student monotony.

Making children's room

When the family comes a little man, he immediately seizes the hearts of their loved ones, and, above all, mothers and fathers. From this point the main goal in their life - to provide it with all necessary. One of the first that make the young parents - equip the room for your child. To baby was comfortable and safe when it is necessary to listen to the arrangement of the recommendations of the experts.

Good parents always care about the health of your baby .  That is why, furnished nursery, first and foremost is safety .  For finishing the ceiling is necessary to choose environmentally friendly materials that do not become the cause of allergic reactions in the baby .  Do not install in the children's ceilings on the basis of PVC .  Their constituent phenols can cause health problems in the child .  The optimal choice for baby - cloth ceilings CLIPS .  As for the walls, the suit paper wallpaper or any other material, which does not include substances that threaten the health of the baby .  As the flooring can be a flooring or laminate .  Better not obscure the room carpet because it will collect dust from which it is not so easy to get rid .  It is best to confine small bedside rug, which will take care of easy . 

Experts in one voice say that the room should be transformed as the child grows. This principle is taken as the basis of modern children's furniture manufacturers. Its distinguishing feature is versatility, ergonomics and practicality. The sleeping area is very often combined with storage systems. This may be a case for storing children's clothes, or a chest of drawers for toys. Often found combined living and working area when the space under the loft bed occupies a desk and bookshelves. Many manufacturers offer an interesting mix of sleeping and playing area. With their light arms bed turns into a pirate ship, a tent, a submarine, etc. Advantages of such furniture are evident, especially in children where the space is limited.

When choosing furniture, you should pay attention not only on its functionality, but also the quality. Carefully inspect the fittings, it must be reliable and durable. Children Furniture should not have sharp corners, glass inserts, and anything that may pose a threat to life and health of the child. Necessarily require the seller a certificate of quality. Children should not be overloaded with furniture, baby needs space for games.

If you want to make repairs served as long as possible, then select any section of the wall under the children's creativity. It can be painted with special paint, which is not afraid of children's scrawl, or hang a large sheet of paper or board. But TV and other office equipment in the children's best not to install.

Since the age of four, the child begins to actively learn about the world, and actively develop imagination. During this period it is better to surround the baby with yellow, orange and blue colors. But it should not be confused with each other a large number of colors. One of the main and two or three additional shades will be enough. The child looks good artistic painting the walls. In a pinch, you can restrict vinyl stickers that are easily glued and just as easy to remove. So you can easily replace the boring landscape in the nursery.

Parents should not impose your taste baby, even if it is 4 or 5 years old. At this age children are formed color preferences, and he may speak in favor of a color design of its rooms.