A favorite toy libraries of raising a child toying with him

Often young parents think that children's games - it's just entertainment. But psychologists and educators have long known it is proved that the development of the child's game - it is an important and necessary part of learning about the world.

Learning life playing

Each of us adults have people remember your favorite childhood toy. From early childhood, children surrounded by all kinds of rattles, Tweeters, spinning tops, dolls. Nobody teaches children to play, they will build their magical world. So it acquires skills that help him understand the world in which it is included. His baby toys animates, every doll, teddy bear, bunny for baby - living entity. In the course of the game, each child learns everything he needs to be at the next step of life, starting with simple steps, ending with already defined standards of conduct.

Kid gradually acquainted with the world around him, he sees what they do adults, watching various professions. So, seeing the bus driver, the child begins to copy what he saw at home, and out of the ordinary stool making "bus." Copying adulthood - the development of creativity. If parents encourage all up, the child grows inquisitive and active, he wants to try everything himself.

Best friend baby

We all watched as plenty of toys the child selects any one and it does not leave. Once Andrei Konchalovsky told the story of his youngest daughter. He and his family returned from vacation, and the airport revealed that forgotten favorite toy - a shabby time earless rabbit. Girl grief knew no bounds. The sobs did not yield to any entreaties and promises to buy a new rabbit. Konchalovsky says that at that moment he realized that her daughter Bunny - the most intimate and beloved creature. The girl did not fall asleep without this hare. Who knows what secrets she whispered this toy.

The story ended happily. Hare was brought out of the hotel, and you should have seen the face of a happy girly with tears not yet dried up. This is such a serious role in the life of toys our kids. It is important to understand and did not shy away from problems when they arise. You should not seek to discard old toy because of its shabby appearance. It is for us some tiger looks terrible, but for our baby, maybe it's the closest thing.

Soft friends for all age groups

Perhaps we should buy one or Cheburashka bear his child, then to observe some interesting relationships will then emerge between small man and a good toy little animals. The child will zverushku seat at the table, and just like Mom fed from a spoon and dry cloth. Toy is perching on a pot, put to sleep. The kid definitely need a friend. So the child himself reinforces good behavior, which he needed in the environment.

Toddlers, regardless of whether they are boys or girls, like soft toys. This invention adults, of course, reflected the desire and the adults themselves cuddle soft and fluffy. Now, not only kids, but their parents are not averse to collapse on the couch after a hard day and a head - nice big soft toy.

Our kiddies think that time is infinite, but we know that a happy childhood ends. And let our kids enjoy the noisy fuss, commotion, laughter. This is not a futile exercise - it is a small happy life little people.

A child from his first marriage

It is no secret that the statistics of divorces each year becomes more and more alarming - and in fact, behind each figure is the fate of a woman whose hopes were not destined to come true. Being left alone, even with a child in her arms - an unenviable share, but the years go by, wounds scarring, and in the soul of every single woman there is hope for a new meeting.

The second marriage, as a rule, develops more successfully - woman performs a kind of "work on our mistakes," not allowing the new family history of protracted conflicts, quarrels, goes on a search for compromise, builds strong and healthy relationship.

But there are some points that could be an insurmountable obstacle between loving people, if they are not taken into account at the time. No matter how badly it sounds, a second marriage may destroy the children from his first marriage, of course, only if you let things take their course.

If a woman marries a man, having the baby, preschooler, it must accurately represent himself as her future husband is the child from his first marriage. Correctly enter those women who from the first moment for not hide the fact that they have a child.

If that does not alienate a man at once, it is unlikely to alienate and afterwards. Of course, there are times when it is, sharing the child begins to be perceived as a nuisance, but it is - a sign that a man is not ready for a serious relationship.

The best solution may be a trial marriage, when all three of us gradually "lapped" to each other, she shows that she can be a wonderful mother to children together, smoothing out all the "corners" and contradictions.

Well, if during the period of "lapping" caring grandmother from time to time to take the baby to her, to give adults figure out their relationship alone.

The people do not say nothing, when a man loves a woman with all his heart, he, in all sincerity and love of her child, will be his father and example. And the child intuitively feeling the love, always reach for the "new" parents, and sooner or later, will say: - "Daddy!"

In another case, when a man, remarry, have a child by his first wife, it is often a problem, especially if the "new" wife is young and has no life experience.

For women characterized by an adequate perception of the child of her husband, they are able to share in his mind of the child and his mother, but for the young is - a common cause for jealousy and quarrels. In addition, the monthly outflow of money for child support, causes irritation and leads to additional expenses hysterics.

How to save a relationship?

Of course, using a dialogue. Speak the maximum amount you will spend a month a man, and with a "reckoning" for unforeseen expenses.

Women should realize that the way a man treats his child, describes him as a good man and loving father, who for joint children is to love and attention. Make your home accessible to the arrival of the baby - the way he understands that there are no enemies, but his dad still loves.

Draw the line from the influence of the effect of the child's first wife - if a child in the home is desired, then his mother - no, but calls on it should not strain, as a common child a great responsibility, and the situations are different.

From women require peace of courage, patience and love - but fortunately, most of us have highly developed maternal instinct, which may overcome the jealousy and anger, or even someone else's child from her first marriage to a good and loving woman will not cause anger or hatred.

And believe me, man will appreciate it in dignity, paying tribute to the patience and wisdom of his chosen. Love, as always, to win!

Educating adolescent and parental love

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One child in the family. The most beloved, the most expensive. All for rodnulki, everything if only son smiling and happy.

But son grew up, and excessive tutelage becomes smaller. For loving parents th   it is still the same small and inexperienced boy, whom where you need to decide where the razrulit ...

But he has long been its adult life, a girl and a desire to live in freedom. So, as you want it, not the parents.

Like and family life, and what draws the certainty is not far off, but the parents put a spoke in the wheel, and pull down the harm that was created over the years. Trying to break, his re sonny. Snap back to the skirt and return to the house of a favorite child.

And how to be in this situation?

Of course, loving parents do it all of the best intentions.

Try to protect the child up to the last and do not want to let him into the harsh world of independence.

How to solve the problem of excessive care?

As lucidly explained by loving parents that the son grew up, and he has a personal life? The question is rather rhetorical. No definite answer to what it is not, and if not who did not reply to.

Can collect will in a fist, and take the first step in the direction? In an extreme case, parents will always return. Try to solve all the problems, to live, not survive, no one is dependent and stay on top. Do you want to live - learn to spin, as they say.

DIY their lives such as I would like you to live it. Let go of Mom's hand and my father's wallet. Start work, understand what it is to contain at least one yourself. Maybe then you'll understand why parents scold you for embezzlement and carelessness ...

Compromise and is always there! It is only necessary to choose the right way and start a new path. Yes, it will be difficult, it will be difficult to get used to the fact that the whole load will fall on your shoulders, but what to do, life is either afloat or go to the bottom.

Of course, do not argue, there is an intermediate state, neither fish nor fowl. But who will you be? This is not independence, to live separately on all the same money the parents, it is not a step forward, it is a pathetic attempt to prove to yourself that you can at least something, but you can not do ...

In your life, absolutely nothing has changed, you are still just in limbo and is completely dependent on his loving parents.

So where is the way out of the circle? To go, to take the risk and make the most of all. That is the right solution, which unfortunately, is not willing to accept one of the teens.

To educate teens vatakatov, consumers. We loved, cherished and received? Son, who can not even afford to pour tea yourself ...

Here it is destructive parental love and overprotection in the education of teenagers.

From the only child of hope and support in the future, an individual farmer grows, give him everything and not take anything in return. All owe him, and he does not have anyone. It is difficult to live in the future to such people, they are not adapted to life.

And if the parents anything happen? What then will become of them, I have long grown, but not independent child? He sag under this life, and left with nothing, without livelihoods and without any ideas and opportunities to find those funds.

Loving parents, think about whether to indulge their children, teenagers ...

Should I let them that children in large families do not see at all? After the words: Dad buy me a car, can become the last word.

Why do you yourself not to capitalize on what you want to buy? After all, if one desires, and will not ruin. Here it is a major fault in the education of teenagers, we allow all children, not thinking that in the future all this will not give them one.

We do not prepare them for life, we adapt and accustom them to the purse ... Think about who in old age you will support. Those who head wind and shit? No, he will forget about you once you will not be able to give him what he needs.

Unfortunately, that's often the case.

Loving parents, teach your children to be independent and pay attention to the education of young people.