How to become a happy woman

Commandments How to become a happy modern woman

Have you ever met a woman with a radiant smile, fashionably dressed, with well-groomed hands, words such whose appearance would speak about the absolute well-being (and you at the same time know that the problems - family, financial, service - it is no less than that you)?

No doubt you will agree there is a lot to learn.

So, The First Commandment:

Every woman should have its own "geography".

There is such a thing: to develop land for the garden or home. I believe that just have to learn it "by his life." Both at home and at work, and in all the places I visit, I try to surround themselves with attributes that invigorate me. Things that are pleasant to use, or you can admire (always with a good smell).

People with whom pleasant to communicate. I like the way that the beautiful landscapes. It is best to make a detour and go to the store, where he works familiar saleswoman (acquaintances, without any Soviet overtones), which respond to a smile than I will buy from the snapper, spoiling the mood.

The second commandment states:

Holiday can not be postponed.

Every day, a woman must give yourself small pleasures. It is impossible for the whole day to do just what you need. In order not to lose the flavor of femininity, it is necessary to afford to do and what you want. Buy some pleasant trifle, to meet a friend, go to the exhibition - to have fun, relax.

And I put emphasis on the fact that the woman herself should give joy - not a husband, not children, not friends. Most of us - slaves details, tortured longing for the ideal. We do not like it all: a country in which we live, the house where not able to bring perfect order, husbands, deprived of beauty and adventurous.

With this approach, you can spoil your blood! Why not look at the matter more simply? Coming home from work to freshen up, wear beautiful things (I prefer home multicolored tights and loose blouse, sometimes wear jewelry), and do so, what is the soul. I would like you to sew - sew, cook - cook.

But no violence against them! Suppose your house is in chaos, and scrambled eggs for dinner, but you will walk with a child with a book or lie. And thus, get an energy charge, which at another time will quickly and gladly do it all to do.

The third commandment is just for family life:

No man, even the closest, has no right to interfere in someone else's soul, mind and spirit .

How can my husband to know all the sources from which I draw the energy to live, to work, to love him, to raise a son? I myself do not know - it's a mystery. And for secrecy always need space, the ability to go beyond the established regulations.

The fourth commandment How to be happy:

The woman, of course, should be mindful of their responsibilities, but they shall not prevail over it.

Such an example. Any of us know: laundry - it is dreary, especially if a week or two to save the dirty laundry. But this, too, can be avoided own special techniques. Does not collect the laundry! When I wash, for example, I pretend like it was not me. Or turn on the music and dance, as if erasing, in between times.

Save nerve cells helps the system of prohibitions. For example, I forbid myself to swear. In this case, there are two prescription. First, if a quarrel going on during the day, leave for. Second, if the case the night, go to bed. It's incredibly hard to not put the record straight "i", not alter her husband for 5 minutes and take and sleep.

It works perfectly! Mental attitude is changing and there is capacity for another look at the situation, find it the right decision.

Even I forbid myself to think about the bad. There is a principle in the airplane: not to feel sick, it is necessary to focus on some trifle. And no matter what happens bad, too, need to focus on the bright, good.

The main thing I think for any woman to be taking care of not to grow to a power of evil and fear. It pulls us out of the juices, which are necessary for happiness.

A man, in the end, always happy as much wants to be happy.

In whose hands is your happiness?

Find your way to the top of happiness,

Break there is a wonderful garden and fabulous live.

Forget thorny path to longer down

In a world without hope, faith and love.

T. Sabirov

"Happiness - a state of complete feeling of ultimate satisfaction" - the explanation is in the Dictionary.

Dictionaries recorded home the meaning of this word: prosperity, well-being, earthly bliss desirable urgent life; peace and contentment; fulfillment of a wish ... So many meanings to understand and understood that word.

In dictionaries all easy and straightforward. Another life. Can one such state, or is it merely a beautiful dream that exists ideally as a goal, as a ghost as elusive Blue Bird? Can you talk about some general concept, valid for everyone, even if in the dictionary Dahl points to the dependence of happiness on the tastes, opinions and habits of the person?

In fact, there is nothing more personal than the idea of ​​happiness, love and beauty. How many people, so many ideas. Because, encompassing all human beings to the depths of happiness accommodates all the individual experience of life is this man, the whole experience of living of its people, its class, its environment and at the same level of individual culture, its individual development.

Not for nothing was sung at one time a popular song: "After all, happiness is not the same at all - it is necessary to understand! "And whether it is necessary to understand? And in general - there is an objective category? Or enough of subjective self-assessment, I consider myself lucky, then, the way it is, and no one can be subjected to this question?

That is the magnitude and significance of happiness, I believe, I do not allow him to bring contentment, joy, delight. All of these words only the components of happiness, not more. To equate happiness to them would be to belittle, to impoverish it. Of course, happiness can not be sullen, dull, joyless.

But it can be thoughtful and shocked, and heroic. In my opinion, it can not be purchased for any riches of the world, but if it is, it can withstand the most difficult challenges of life.

At different times in different people differently was the idea of ​​happiness, but every time it was attended by what could be called the dedication, selflessness, when a person is some value greater than he, more than his personal well-being or the existence of:

- Unfortunately, who takes but does not give one another,

I'm happy that he took, but also give.

(Rudaki)

- The happiest man is the one who gives happiness to the greatest number of people.

(Denis Diderot)

- You and I, my country,

Some forests and rivers,

Some enemies, some friends,

One destiny forever.

Hours and days are not in a hurry,

I know - this is happiness

All the time feel

Thy small part.

(Juuban Moldagaliyev)

These people are not conspiring with each other, the Persian poet of the ninth century, the French philosopher of the eighteenth century German composer and Kazakh poet. They wrote that the feel and experience for yourself, I do not think it's safe to say that they also make your own happiness with his own hands.

For me, the thought of this happiness is wonderful, it gives us hope, makes us believe only the best in the fairy-tale!

It inspires so much so that you're always smiling and even write poetry! (Please accept my humble verses)

Who says people do not fly?

Refute: This is a lie!

Prove I just know it!

And this creepy ...

Who says we do not have wings?

With all of the earth, just running around so go ...

And believe it who forced you?

Who knows what it is?

I'm sure we all have ever flown!

Like now I'm flying with happiness.

Overcoming the distance and gave everything,

From love comes off the soul from the body!

And the unknown flight

Forget even the air is full of chest!

I'm flying like an angel in the sky,

And back I want to forget the way:

That way, in a very different world -

Dark, full of sadness, darkness and sadness.

I want to be an angel to you

And to fly to those given fabulous ...

Yes, happiness - it is both simple and complicated.

Happiness - it be necessary, the right person is to love life, people love their future profession. His personal real happiness, his life we ​​have to do themselves with their own hands.

There is a parable:

"There was once a good god in the world, and he had a magic clay. From this clay made god food, shelter, tools, and that's happiness, how much he tried, he could not. Then God gave this little piece of clay man and said, "do their own happiness! "And disappeared."

Since then, perhaps, a man does his happiness itself, not relying on any of the gods, or even friends. Excellent lives only in your hands! And his nineteen years, I just know it!