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At the same time the needs and possibilities, talents, the child is often not taken into account. And then - more. Man grows, for it is becoming almost the norm to go against his own wishes, a solid "you should," "so it is necessary," life goes on completely Saturnian principle.

But the principle of the sun - is suppressed, which is moved in the back: the man does not know, just do not even understand what it means to live for yourself. And where "live" there, as we already know, and "love." So, to attract love into your life, we should be ready for this. Prepared for the fact that not only get but give, give love.

And to give, we just need to revive itself is initially given to us, the ability to love. For a start, you simply love yourself, learn to love yourself.

I always suggest to start with, to believe in yourself, believe in their own strength.

Yes, it is not easy (especially when a lot of years we have something to inspire, forced demanded to suppress our individuality). But it is - maybe.

Let's try to change our attitudes. Not "I have to (must)," but "I want to do it, I love it to do it."

For the first time will have for a careful follow-up, your thoughts, moods, as soon as proskvozilo "should (must)" immediately fix our to "like, I like it."

(And not stupid "like, because we need" - violently, as we know, love can not be, and our subconscious, we deceive still fail, it will give a signal that "it's not yours," "you this alien" "You nasiluesh yourself"; subconscious mind has the ability to resist the limitations that are imposed from the outside, that a given individual is simply alien who go contrary to his personality ...)

Let's not about finding a loved one from the standpoint of "looking for my soul mate." Yet every one of us - a complete personality, an independent unit of life. What happens after that is out of fear of being alone, we snapped the first comer, or hold on to all the forces we do not need, you yourself outdated attitudes.

I offer myself honest answer to the question: "Who am I (name), half or all of the same person? What I like to be? What in me is valuable, important, wonderful, it makes me a person? "That is, it is very important to realize the Self Value:" I - there. " The principle of the Sun, "Shine always shine everywhere ...").

However, many, during this operation, the principle emerges suddenly brighter moon - "candle reflected light", that is, translating other people's expectations, go with the flow, do not the works, and accept. That's where "is taken and" - the desire to be "half" there.

And, in the absence (or loss) of the second "half" - a feeling of inferiority, a sense of helplessness, even the desire to be the victim of someone arises.

To impose their beliefs, especially during work, especially this, no one going, but always suggest at this stage to decide - one else wants to be the Sun (and create love, give love, to radiate love to give back, too, is love ), or the Moon (only receive, reflect, translate, light but not heat).

If the second - probably further work is meaningless, I suggest a person to continue to be a "moon" until now, finally, I do not want to be a "sun". When a person chooses to be "sun", wants to live, create, love ... In accordance with its sun (and they are always visible in the natal chart) principles ... So, in an effort to better understand, learn myself, I propose to answer another series of questions .

Namely: "Who am I, Imyarek, but just as a person? What I want to aspire to anything in this life? What is your dream? What is it - I really like to do, to feel? What exactly - I love? "

And, honestly answering these questions honestly to ourselves, and we will do some real progress in the direction of self-love.

This work - frankly, not easy, not for one day, and a month, sometimes even stretch on for years. But the results exceed all expectations. When we finally manage to get rid of the imposed on us from outside, no longer match someone else's (not our own) expectations, not be carried out on the manipulation.

A feel - kind of whole. Self-sufficient and confident individuals. You can, of course, be dissolved in another (the principle of Neptune), and adjust (the principle of the moon). Again, this kind of love is possible, too, it happens to have the right to exist.

That's just it's more an illusion, not true love. Care facility such love from our lives - and once empty, the light faded, nothing pleases. But when, giving his love to another, we are left with the Him, self-sufficient, and we like it, the emptiness and will not occur.

For the sun can fade, just because something has changed in our lives and some relationships have come to naught, or moved into a different quality.

"The truth is that there is an ideal partner in our lives only when we become perfect. Ideal not in terms of standards of beauty, but in terms of peace and harmony in his own soul. " Wonderful words: "peace and harmony in his own soul."

Emit light, to give warmth. Carry a love. Each of this particular wish.

Tatiana Zanadvorova

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As a woman to love yourself in the present, all the tips for myself

And shopping trip. What you need? Slippers? Bathrobe? Sport suit? Pajamas? Underwear? Why feel sorry for yourself? You deserve it.

Because more of yourself there is no one. Because if not you, then nothing will be necessary.

Start loving yourself. Begin to appreciate yourself. Begin to respect themselves.   And no one, even a favorite you are not allowed to lead.

Tired? I don `t want? Himself to blame. Uploaded means.

You are the mistress of your life.   And you decide when to open the entrance to his bedroom, and when you need to talk about the ceiling, which is necessary to blanch.

Do not force yourself. Worried that escapes? Let escape. But it's better than pretend to dissemble and pretend to be the one that never gets tired, and only dreams of intimacy. However, some more and not cheating, portraying his temper and love (you know what I mean)

And who is it worse? If you have already come to that, what about true love can be forgotten, because everything will happen according to the scenario where the secret thoughts there is no limit, saying that soon would be all over, he quickly fell behind me, so sleepy, so tired ...

And where love is gone? Yes, she just ran away. Then, you may receive and hatred. It will come by itself. And the blame for all women, because not enough love yourself enough valued themselves. And resolve, to some extent, to humiliate myself.

Once you have it all to imagine the sad picture will rise before your eyes. You are a slave. Slave, which is needed for maintenance.

Passion will leave themselves. Family life slowly turns into hard labor. And the question that suggests itself: why did this happen? And will spread resentment and unspoken words about his life, which completely does not suit you. It is almost final.

So why allow this? Where is the mistake? A mistake is simply the inability to love yourself.

Think about it.

Make your life better, richer.

Do not doom ourselves to hard work from morning to night.

Do not forget to take care of themselves.

Give yourself as much attention.

We need to make sure that love does not escape, to be loved, valued, respected, so that you always gave flowers, sweets, gifts.

We need to make sure that care about you, so that you feel the attention and warmth, so you do not get tired, and looking forward to meeting you were not willing to dissemble and pretend, and to truly love and be loved and cherished.

And it needs very little. It is to love yourself.   Nobody will do it better than you.

A woman who can not love yourself, do not be happy because it and really will not love anybody. This is the bitter truth.

If all this is to do something -

You will gain confidence.

You will become softer, kinder and gentler.

You will start to respect and appreciate themselves.

You will attract attention to themselves those who are near.

You will never be forced to urge and do what you do not like.

Since you will be considered by others.

Will be attracted to you like a magnet.

Say to yourself that you love yourself, that you value yourself that you are confident in yourself that you can not fall so low to do something against your will.

Never tired of taking care of yourself. Not Retrieve your lost, do not complain that you are unhappy. Do not go on about the difficulties. Do not blame yourself that you can not do anything.

Accept yourself and love for what you are.

And the more you love yourself, the more you can love others, the more you will pay attention, the more you will love.

Is not this the harmony of happiness? If you enjoy life right now, when you are alone, when no one is near if you give yourself pleasure, then you will have to come from the heat, then this will be attracted to the surrounding heat.

Live in harmony with each other.

Be a magnet for others.

Attracts the world of his love.

But you should start with yourself.

Love yourself. And the whole world will be at your feet.

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