How to become a happy state of happiness

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What needs to happen now to make you feel happy?

The huge cash prize, the order to raise at work, call a loved one? Now imagine that this has already happened

Feel the sparkle in the eyes, "gripping" spirit. Now, hold that condition for 5 minutes.

If you are knocked out of a phone call or a relative question, "Do you then, went to the roof? "Make a second attempt. Take your time, enter into a state of gradual, in cool seawater. At first will be a little unusual, a new state, it is like a new coat, the body gets used to it gradually.

After 5 minutes, try to get out of this state, think of some immediate problems. About unpaid phone bills, that you today at the head of the rude, that get up early tomorrow. Today, all you his normal happy life fulfilled.

And tomorrow - proceed again. Absorbing state in the same small dose, if you want a little time, you can enhance and add a "second approach". As in bodybuilding. Try to increase up to 15-20 minutes, add the morning and evening approaches.

Why do a lot? You are not afraid to eat 3 times a day? So saturate your body endorphin with the same frequency. This nice and helpful to health.

By the way, when you have "caught" the state does not need to sit in the lotus position, you can do the usual chores, wash dishes, walk the dog, to argue with a loved one:

Just hold this state, hold it, get used to live in it.

But leave the state is not required. If you forget to do this at the end of the planned 15 minutes, do not worry.

For my friend Anya students, this exercise very quickly become the norm. Unfamiliar people behind the eye called her "stoned", but friends have become accustomed. And people are drawn to it, like daisies in the spring sun, it is easy to communicate, it warms by their presence.

Surrounds the first time, will look at you, though, as mad, but nothing, then get used to. And then you start to talk about:

Women and divorce do not regret what was not to guess what will happen, upgrade there!

 Women and divorce, want a divorce

What is a divorce for a woman? I thought about it on the eve of his own divorce ... the fourth.

How to describe the excruciating torment that happen in my soul? Feeling new, unfamiliar ... and everything in this world is relative, and the old man Einstein was always right?

I want a divorce

I dig deeper into his memory ... and found:

My divorce is likely similar to the plastic surgery.

I know that I need it ... not just a need, and I'm really looking forward to it even, and I want more than that, I have to pay for it. But I'm scared. I do not know what will happen to me after this procedure.

I can not imagine how my life has changed after the divorce. And ready to brand yourself on what light is behind such a decision.

Well, why do not I need these protruding ears or straight nose? Yes, I have already got used to the spare parts, I know them. I know where they hide, if that. And is not that big nose, even very much like it.

Inside the mind knocking: and what you'll be beautiful ... free!

30 minutes before the operation, 20 minutes, 10 rolls ... heart. And you've already invited into the operating room, where all the horrible cold and smells ... but not what it does not smell! The continuous vacuum. Because already without anesthesia legs give way.

Lay on the table ... and that's before the eyes of the whole life flashes. The meetings, the first embrace, the first kiss and the words of the registry office employee: "Is your desire to marry free ..."

What freedom was discussed then? What do I hope for? .. At that time already a good anesthesiologist doing his thing ... that aired immerses you in a dream ... thoughts are slowed down and spread out. And then wee-wee ... wait for the answer.

The operation ended. You bring in a comfortable room. Consciousness returns. The past is over, begins a bright future. After collecting all the power you whispered (loudly does not work) ask the mirror.

You want to see the object of his anguish and torment. Yes, they may even try to dissuade? You went through so much! You have that right!

And it brings, and there ... on the other side of the glass ... Ah-ah-ah-ah oh, horror! Yet all that hurts and aches, and in the mirror instead of the princess ... a monstrous swollen mummy. Blow it ... and then only tears, fatigue and back to sleep.

Where is the promised limitless freedom? And why is it necessary that creature on the other side of glass? ..

I do not regret that was not to guess what will happen, upgrade there!

It will take 7 days Swelling and bruising will disappear almost, a little makeup and even the uninitiated will not guess what you went through. 50% of your time you will be spending in the mirror and admire their new "sights".

You are fun, free, you're new!

Walking through the streets, sitting behind the wheel of your favorite car or walking down the subway you will catch the eyes of passers-by. Change posture, gait (it will be something royal).

YOU ARE A WOMAN! You are wonderful!

I do not regret that was not to guess what will happen, that there is improved!

Author Anna

Taste of life, or the ability to be happy

 Taste of life, or the ability to be happy
Taste of life, the ability to be happy

How to recover a taste for life, avoid depression, to feel happy.

In every life there are moments when it seems that everything seemed as usual, but something desperately lacking, and what it is - is not clear, or when you begin to see things in black permanently feelest some trouble and therefore feel miserable ...

Such symptoms suggest approaching depression - very bad state, which is much easier to prevent, rather than eliminated. For information on how to return the taste for life, avoid depression, to feel needed and happy - read on!

"You want to be happy - be happy" Kozma bars. Not many people never who heard this simple truth, fraught with a brilliant sense. And really - all genius is simple. You think that you are unhappy? The reasons can be many - it unsettled personal life and problems with work, dissatisfaction with their appearance, etc.

A because everything in our life is relative, and what you think the problem is not giving fully live alone, in fact, it is not. Many people are inclined by nature dramatize the situation, while that for no good reason.

A friend of mine, for example, became very upset when she found a few prominent moles, suddenly appeared on the body. She began to wear closed clothes, in every way Avoid being in the sun, I looked enviously at friends, or visiting a solarium which gathered to go to the sea.

Every day, in your spare time, she just did that I examined the body for the appearance of new moles, became irritable and scattered. She began to feel that at any moment it may appear larger birthmark on his face, which would disfigure it, or, God forbid, will develop a malignant tumor.

Can you imagine what has become her life with such an approach to business? Blowing out of molehills, she became unhappy, complaining about the unfairness of life, it lishivshuyu simple earthly pleasures.

At the same time, millions of people are holders of moles, including the face, including large and noticeable, but it does not prevent them to fully live and enjoy life in all its manifestations, they just should not be abused and to be a little tan attentive to their health than other people who are absent or moles small and insignificant.

That's all, and no fanaticism. "You have to compare," - says the proverb, and it is impossible to disagree. You pay a little at work? Cramped apartment? Divorced and therefore unhappy? You look around and realize that you can not complain, because there is always someone, who have a harder time than you.

Small salary? Perhaps what is "small" for you - it's order more income lone pensioner who worked all his life for the benefit of their countries and as a result received a penny for their retirement.

Cramped apartment? Maybe, "Close" flat, such as you, is an accomplishment for some families several parents and children with disabilities living in a dilapidated wooden house in some village, waiting for many years from the state.

No husband? Think of orphans, street children or the elderly, who do not have one at all. Examples There are many, but there is one conclusion - value what you have, and sincerely rejoice this! Not easy to say: "What we have - we do not store and lost - we cry." therefore keep what you have, so it was not necessary then to cry.

"There was a blessing in disguise" - this is true noticed!

That unhappiness sometimes make us start to appreciate what we have, because the risk of loss is always It promotes reassessment of values.

What yesterday seemed to us a little significant, everyday, banal and routine becomes very important and valuable, once we understand that We can lose it, or suddenly lose.

We can see, speak, hear, smell and sounds - It is commonplace for us, we are born with this and therefore take for granted, and After all, for a blind man sight - the greatest miracle of its acquisition - a dream that often never come true.

You appreciate everything you have, everything that gave You Mother Nature. Rejoice that you can speak and listen to the birds, breathe fresh air, walk on the grass or warm sand and see the beautiful world around, smell the flowers, feel the wind light touch to the skin, rejoice every the time of their existence!

One girl, who is now no longer with us, being terminally ill, said: "The fact that what happened - it's good, because now I began to truly live a full life, rejoice every passing minute, to appreciate this life and the possibility to live! "- Meaning these sad, but at the same time ingenious words spoken really strong man must become a motto for everyone.

After all, life is given to us only one, and it must reside in tears, sorrow and anguish, savoring its destruction and melting the entire offense peace, and joy, positive and productive, enjoying every moment, doing other happy and therefore become very happy.

It turns out that the formula for happiness is not too difficult to calculate, you just have to look at things a slightly different angle.

I believe that by reading this article, think about each of its life and happiness, will understand how this very life is beautiful and multifaceted, as much opportunities it gives us every day, and that the program was initially laid in happiness each of us, and it is elementary, and it works great if feed it to their positive.

Happy life without depression - a reality that absolutely everyone in currently able to provide, the main secret of success - the ability to appreciate.

I appreciate everything, that life would not we presented: Every year the unique, awesome day every beautiful moment of my life!

Let your life be filled with kindness and love, appreciate life and she will answer you in return! Good luck!





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